Unity in the Chaos

Unity in the Chaos

Key Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 – “Two are better than one… a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”

Focus: Building marital unity amid the daily demands of parenting.

Devotional:

The demands of parenting can pull at the seams of a marriage. Time is short, patience runs thin, and it’s easy to shift into a mode of partnership that feels more like survival than covenant. But Scripture calls us to something deeper—a unity that endures not just despite the chaos, but because of it.

“Two are better than one,” Solomon writes, not simply because of companionship, but because they support, protect, and strengthen one another in trial. And this unity is not based on feelings or fleeting peace—it is bound by a third strand: the Lord Himself. A marriage built upon Christ is a “threefold cord” that is not easily broken.

This is a picture of sola Scriptura in action—letting the Word of God define your priorities. The world may say to put the children first, or to seek your own happiness, but Scripture calls you to honor the covenant you made before God (Malachi 2:14-15). Your unity with your spouse is not a side project—it’s a vital part of your calling, and the very soil in which your children will grow.

Even when emotions are raw or communication is hard, choose to pursue oneness. Pray together, even briefly. Encourage one another in the Word. Seek forgiveness quickly. These are not grand acts, but daily acts of covenantal faithfulness. And in doing so, you will not only preserve unity—you will proclaim the gospel, which reconciles sinners and makes them one (Ephesians 2:14).

Reflection Verses:

  • Colossians 3:14 – “And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.”
  • Ephesians 4:2-3 – “…with all humility and gentleness, with patience… eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
  • 1 Peter 3:7 – “Husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way…”

Sola Connection: Sola Scriptura – Let the authority of God’s Word guide how we build and guard our unity in marriage, even in seasons of stress and difficulty.

Practically Speaking – How can we apply this to our days

  1. Prioritize Each Other Daily
    It doesn’t have to be grand — a five-minute conversation without interruption, a hug before dinner, a kind word in passing. Little deposits of attention and affection build trust and closeness. When you focus on finding ways to prioritize one another this work you put in becomes a habit which become a normal part of your relationship, simply put sometimes it takes work and thoughtfulness to then become the second nature.  
  2. Communicate Honestly and Often
    Parenting adds a lot of noise — schedules, needs, stress. Carve out time to check in with each other emotionally and spiritually. Ask, “How’s your heart?”, not just “Who’s picking up the groceries?”

    1. Here are some questions you could ask when on a date night or what we like to call date in’s
      1. “In what ways have you sensed God working in your heart lately?”
      2. “How can I better support and respect you as a wife according to God’s design?”
      3. “What are your hopes for our family spiritually in this season?”
      4. “How can we grow closer to Christ together in this season of marriage?”
      5. “What truths from Scripture have been anchoring you lately?”
      6. “In what ways can we be more intentional about reflecting Christ in our marriage?”
      7. “Is there an area in our life or home where we need to seek God’s wisdom more intentionally?” 
  3. Stay on the Same Team
    Unity comes from facing challenges together. Don’t let parenting decisions become battlegrounds. Discuss discipline, routines, and goals privately, and present a united front to your children. Biblically, parental unity is essential because it reflects the very character of God, promotes peace and order in the home, and provides a stable foundation for raising children in the Lord. Jesus Himself said, “A house divided against itself cannot stand” (Mark 3:25), reminding us that disunity weakens the structure of the family. God calls both parents to work together in training their children with consistent discipline and instruction (Ephesians 6:4), not as conflicting voices but as one heart aligned under His authority. A unified parental front mirrors the oneness of Christ and His Church (Matthew 19:6), modeling for children what sacrificial love, mutual respect, and godly leadership look like in everyday life. When parents are united, it helps children learn to respect authority, feel secure, and trust in the boundaries set for their good. Unity doesn’t mean perfection—it means humility, communication, and a shared desire to honor God together. Ultimately, being of one mind and heart as parents brings peace to the home (Ephesians 4:3) and gives children a living picture of God’s unchanging, trustworthy nature. 
  4. Protect Intimacy — Emotionally and Physically
    The demands of parenting can easily edge out closeness. Be intentional about physical affection, but also about emotional and spiritual intimacy. Pray together. Laugh. Flirt. Stay connected. The best biblical way to protect intimacy in marriage is to pursue oneness through selfless love, unwavering faithfulness, and a shared devotion to Christ. Scripture teaches that marriage is a covenant where two become one flesh (Genesis 2:24), and that sacred unity must be intentionally guarded. Intimacy flourishes in an atmosphere of Christlike love—where spouses serve one another with humility and sacrifice, just as Christ loved the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Protecting your heart, eyes, and thoughts from outside temptations and rejoicing in the spouse God has given you (Proverbs 5:18–19) preserves both emotional and physical closeness. True intimacy is also deeply spiritual; praying together and inviting God into your marriage weaves a strong cord that cannot easily be broken (Ecclesiastes 4:12). Consistent, honest, and loving communication fosters safety and connection, where forgiveness flows freely and needs are expressed with tenderness (1 Corinthians 16:14). At its heart, intimacy in marriage is not just about passion—it’s about deep, faithful love rooted in the gospel and nurtured daily by grace. 
  5. Give Grace Generously
    You’re both tired. You’ll both make mistakes. Let your default be grace, not grudges. Unity is protected when we respond to each other’s failures with humility and forgiveness.Biblical love chooses to believe the best, not assume the worst. Thinking the best of one another means giving grace, resisting suspicion, and extending trust—especially in marriage and family. It’s a posture of the heart that reflects Christ’s love: patient, hopeful, and enduring even when imperfect people fail. 

REMINDERS –  Biblically Speaking

  1. Marriage Is a Covenant, Not a Convenience
    “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”Matthew 19:6
    ➤ Parenting is a calling, but your primary human covenant is with your spouse. Don’t let your roles as mom and dad eclipse your roles as husband and wife. 
  2. Unity Reflects the Gospel
    “…that they may be one even as we are one.”John 17:22
    ➤ Marital oneness mirrors the unity between Christ and the Father — a testimony to your children and the world of God’s love and order. 
  3. Parenting Should Be a Partnership
    “Two are better than one… For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow.”Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
    ➤ God designed you to parent together — not in competition, but in collaboration. You need each other’s strengths. 
  4. Guard Your Hearts from Bitterness
    “See to it… that no ‘root of bitterness’ springs up and causes trouble.”Hebrews 12:15
    ➤ In the stress of parenting, small annoyances can become large walls. Forgive quickly, repent often, and keep your hearts tender toward each other. 
  5. Sola Gratia: Unity by Grace Alone
    ➤ You won’t build unity by striving harder — not for long. True oneness comes by grace through Christ, who empowers you to love sacrificially, forgive fully, and pursue peace daily. 

 In Practice, That Might Look Like…

  • Choosing to overlook a harsh word because you know your spouse is tired, and responding gently instead  
  • Scheduling a regular check-in night once a week to reconnect and recalibrate your parenting and marriage 
  • Praying together each morning — even for one minute — asking God for unity and patience as parents and partners 
  • Affirming your spouse in front of your children, showing them what a loving marriage looks like 

Love That Reflects Christ

Love That Reflects Christ

Key Scripture: Ephesians 5:1-2 – “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”

Focus: Living out Christ’s love in the home—with spouse and children.

Devotional:

The Christian home is a battleground for the heart. In both marriage and parenting, love is tested—not in grand gestures, but in the ordinary moments: when you are interrupted, misunderstood, or asked to give more than you feel you have. And yet this is where Christian love is meant to shine brightest—because it reflects not human affection, but divine sacrifice.

We are called to imitate God as beloved children, walking in love as Christ loved us. His love was not sentimental or self-serving—it was costly, covenantal, and undeserved (Romans 5:8). This love—solus Christus, Christ alone—is the foundation of our ability to love others. When you struggle to be patient with your child or forgiving toward your spouse, remember: Christ loved you first, not when you were lovable, but when you were dead in sin (Ephesians 2:1-5).

The call to love in the Christian life is not fueled by human strength or personality—it is the Spirit’s work in us, rooted in the gospel and modeled by Christ (Galatians 5:22-23). The same Savior who laid down His life for you now calls you to take up your cross daily (Luke 9:23)—not out of guilt, but out of gratitude for His redeeming grace.

When love feels hard, you are not failing—you are being refined. God uses your home, your marriage, your children to grow your heart in Christlike love. Let your home be a place where the fragrance of sacrificial love lingers, pointing all who enter—especially your family—back to the One who gave Himself for us.

Reflection Verses:

  • 1 John 4:19 – “We love because He first loved us.”
  • Philippians 2:3-5 – “In humility count others more significant than yourselves…”
  • Romans 12:10 – “Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.”

Sola Connection: Solus Christus – We love others because Christ first loved us. His life and sacrifice are both the model and the means by which we love within the home.

Practically Living Out Christ’s Love in the Home

  1. Serve Selflessly
    Christ’s love is sacrificial (Ephesians 5:25). In marriage, this means putting your spouse’s needs before your own, not expecting anything in return. In parenting, it means prioritizing your children’s needs above your own comfort. The problem arises when we expect things in return for our work, and when we do that it shows the who we want to get the glory for our service. Glory to God Alone is the goal, privilege, and purpose of our lives and yet it can be all to easy to want the glory, praise and honor for ourselves.

  2. Speak Words of Life
    The words we speak should be full of grace and truth (Ephesians 4:29). Christ’s love teaches us to speak encouragement, patience, and kindness, whether with your spouse or your children. It’s a love that builds up, not tears down. “Words are free. It’s how you use them that may cost you.” We see in Proverbs 18:21“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.”

  3. Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak
    James 1:19 reminds us that love listens. Too often, we rush to fix or judge, but Christ’s love is patient and slow to anger. Practice really hearing your spouse’s heart and listening to your children’s frustrations or joys. Let me tell you that internally we know this to be the best way to grow in relationship and win the hearts of our children but externally lots of distractions (even good ones) happen throughout the day: cleaning, cooking, homemaking, schooling, you name it – but speaking from experience it is all too easy to allow these distractions to rule your life, so a gentle caution.

  4. Prioritize Time Together
    Just as Jesus made time for His disciples, making time for your spouse and children shows them they are your priority. Regular family time, family bible night, date nights, or moments of conversation reflect Christ’s love by showing we value others over our schedules. “The most important work you will ever do will be within the walls of your own home.” — Harold B. Lee. And we see Ephesians 5:15-16“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil.”

  5. Model Unconditional Love
    Christ loved us even when we were unlovable (Romans 5:8). This is the kind of love we’re to reflect in marriage and parenting — not based on performance or actions, but on grace. We love because He first loved us (1 John 4:19). Love, according to Scripture, is the selfless and steadfast commitment to seek the good of others, rooted in the very nature of God Himself. It is patient and kind, not envious, boastful, or proud. True love does not insist on its own way, nor is it irritable or resentful. It rejoices in truth, not in wrongdoing. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Because God is love (1 John 4:8), all true love flows from Him — holy, sacrificial, and unwavering.

REMINDERS: Biblically Living Out Christ’s Love

  1. Christ Loved the Church Sacrificially (Ephesians 5:25)
    Christ’s love for His bride, the Church, is the ultimate model for marriage. As husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the Church, wives are called to submit out of love and respect (Ephesians 5:22-33). This is a mutual love grounded in Christ’s sacrifice. As wives and mothers let us be encourage to do our role of loving without expectations of love in return but out of obedience to Christ’s example.

  2. Love Your Neighbor as Yourself (Matthew 22:39)
    Christ’s command to love our neighbor as ourselves starts in the home. This means loving your spouse and children in a way that honors God, reflects His heart, and truly seeks their well-being above your own desires. Loving and showing care for others we would consider neighbors is part of our christian walk, however a gentle encouragement us as wives and mothers is to not neglect our own families in the process of caring for others, as motherhood and being a wive is our role and God given ministry. 
  1. Children are a Blessing, Loved and Cherished (Psalm 127:3)
    Christ shows us how to cherish and instruct children in love. They are a heritage from the Lord, and our role is not to exasperate them (Ephesians 6:4) but to guide them with gentle correction, wisdom, and love. Discipline without love  is correction stripped of compassion. It may produce outward obedience, but it often leads to resentment, fear, or rebellion rather than true heart change. Discipline without love is control, not care, It focuses on behavior rather than the heart, punishes instead of teaches, and enforces rules without relationship.

  2. Love is Patient, Kind, and Forgiving (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
    Christ’s love is perfectly patient and kind. It never holds grudges, and it keeps no record of wrongs. This love must be evident in our marriages, where we forgive, encourage, and endure one another’s weaknesses, just as Christ does for us. Word of caution for unforgiveness unchecked becomes a root of bitterness. Bitterness begins subtly — like a root. It often starts small: an offense not dealt with, a hurt not healed, a wrong not forgiven. It causes trouble. Bitterness poisons relationships. In marriage, it breeds resentment. In parenting, it can lead to harshness. In the home, it creates division, coldness, and strife. It spreads and defiles many.  Bitterness doesn’t stay contained. It affects everyone around — your children, your spouse, even your church family.

  3. Sola Gratia and Sola Christus—Christ’s Love is Unmerited and Sufficient
    In our homes, love isn’t about earning favor. It’s about grace — unearned, unmerited. Christ’s love for us is perfect and freely given, and so, in the home, we extend that same unearned, unconditional love to our spouse and children, empowered by the Holy Spirit.

 In Practice, That Might Look Like…

  • To your spouse: Demonstrating sacrificial love by forgiving offenses, setting aside your own preferences, and communicating gently when things are tough.

  • To your children: Reflecting Christ’s patience and kindness in everyday moments — from disciplining them with love to encouraging them with truth and compassion.

  • In moments of conflict: Choosing to humble yourself, ask for forgiveness, and seek reconciliation, knowing that Christ has already done this for us.

Rooted in Grace: Parenting and Marriage in God’s Strength

 

Rooted in Grace: Parenting and Marriage in God’s Strength

Key Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

Focus: Encouragement that God’s grace covers our weaknesses in both roles.

Devotional:

There are days when the Christian mother feels utterly spent—worn thin by tantrums, sleepless nights, or discouragement in our marriage. It’s easy to believe the lie that strength must be conjured up from within. But Scripture reminds us of the opposite: our weakness is not a liability in the Christian life—it’s the very place where God’s power is most clearly displayed (2 Corinthians 12:9-10).

In our parenting, we will not be enough. In our marriage, we will fall short. And that’s not failure—it’s an invitation to lean entirely upon Christ. This is the heart of sola gratia—grace alone. The Christian life is not built on our performance, but on God’s unmerited favor toward us in Christ. When we are tempted to measure ourselves by our productivity, our mood, or our mothering, stop and turn your eyes again to the cross, where Christ declared, “It is finished” (John 19:30). The work that ultimately matters has been completed by Him.

Marriage and motherhood are sanctifying callings. God uses them to strip away self-reliance and drive us to the sufficiency of His grace. He does not ask us to mother or love our husband in our own strength—He calls you to abide in Christ (John 15:5). We are not the vine; He is. The fruit you long to see in your home—peace, patience, love—flows only from Him.

So when we feel weak, weary, or unworthy, do not despair. Lift your eyes to the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16), and boldly approach the One who never wearies, never withholds, and never forgets His own.

Reflection Verses:

  • Psalm 73:26 – “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
  • Isaiah 40:29 – “He gives power to the faint, and to him who has no might He increases strength.”
  • John 15:5 – “Apart from Me, you can do nothing.”

Sola Connection: Sola Gratia – By grace alone, not our strength, we are saved, sustained, and sanctified. Even in our roles as mothers and wives, it is not our effort but His grace that carries us.

 

 

Practically Depending on Grace

  1. Start with the Gospel Every Day
    Remind yourself that your standing before God is based on Christ’s righteousness, not your performance as a wife or mother. That relieves the pressure to be perfect and centers your heart on gratitude. Finding our true identity and walking in the truth that we are daughters of the king, ambassadors to His kingdom for His good. And when we are tempted to get nervous that we are not enough, won’t be good enough or will fail, we need to stop and remind ourselves of who is sovereign, who is king and who holds us in His hands. Dependance on His grace, His word, His truth! 
  2. Confess Quickly and Forgive Freely
    Grace frees us to admit when we’ve failed — snapped at our spouse, lost patience with a child — and ask forgiveness without fear of condemnation. And it empowers us to extend that same forgiveness. There is therefore no condemnation in Christ! Let us be quick to confess and forgive for it helps reduce bitterness, encourages relational closeness, shows dependence on Christ, and shows everyone’s need for a savior.  
  3. Pray Constantly and Specifically
    Depending on grace means running to the throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16) often — in moments of weakness, exhaustion, joy, or need. Prayer acknowledges, “I can’t do this alone.” It brings awareness for our need for a savior! It positions our heart posture to a place of walking in grace, thus helping us to show grace, teach grace, and love grace.  
  4. Adjust Expectations with Grace in Mind
    Kids aren’t perfect. Husbands aren’t either. And neither are we. Grace allows us to parent and relate not out of frustration or control, but with patience, long-suffering, and hope. High biblical expectations are appropriate to teach and guide our family towards BUT at the same time when we look at sin in our family (specifically our children and husband) and we decide in our control it is our fault and our responsibility to fix, we run the risk of playing the God, rather if we look at seeing sin in our children or husband as an opportunity to share the gospel and redirect towards christ we are grateful for the opportunity to show our need for a Savior.  
  5. Rest in Your Limitations
    Grace means you don’t have to carry it all. Sometimes you need to rest, say no, or let go of things you can’t control. Your identity is secure in Christ, not in your productivity or parenting perfection. When we look at our role as a mother and wife as a checklist, or a job to accomplish I fear we are connecting too much to a worldly view we find with in workplace, verses when we look at mother and wife as a biblical role we find it is a fulfillment of the design and purpose we were created for, an on-going privilege that allows us to be sanctified in our service to Christ.  

 Biblically Depending on Grace REMINDERS OF TRUTH

  1. We are saved and sustained by grace (Ephesians 2:8-9)
    Just as we are saved by grace, we walk and parent by grace — not by works. Trying harder isn’t the solution; abiding in Christ is (John 15:5). 
  2. Christ’s grace is sufficient in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9)
    Paul’s reminder that God’s power is made perfect in our weakness is so relevant when we’re exhausted, confused, or failing. Parenting and marriage will expose your limits — and that’s where grace meets you. 
  3. Grace teaches us to live godly lives (Titus 2:11-12)
    Grace is not just forgiveness; it’s also the divine power that shapes us into patient, kind, faithful wives and mothers. It trains us. 
  4. Sola Gratia (Grace Alone)
    The Reformation truth of Sola Gratia reminds us that all good things — including growth in marriage, fruit in parenting, and sanctification — come by grace alone. Not by effort alone, not by control, not by works. 
  5. Christ is our ultimate model and source (Hebrews 12:2)
    Looking to Jesus — who endured the cross, who is patient and faithful — fuels our endurance. He is not only our example but our strength. 

In Practice, That Might Look Like…

  • Speaking gently to your husband even when you’re tired, because the Spirit is producing fruit in you (Galatians 5:22-23). 
  • Letting go of mom excessive guilt, knowing there’s no condemnation in Christ (Romans 8:1). Sometimes I would encourage moms to not disregard mom guilt in the sense that we need to take everything to God in prayer, and to see if that signal feeling of guilt is something we need to take a heart look at, perhaps it could be the holy spirit stirring up in us something to be sanctified in our develop a conviction for. And yet we need to let go and have caution for things that we promoting condemnation and shame through that mom guilt 
  • Asking your child for forgiveness when you sin against them, modeling humility and Gospel dependence. If we desire to live a grace filled life we must teach and model that beautiful gift.  
  • Praying over your home, your marriage, and your little ones with confidence, because Jesus intercedes for you (Romans 8:34). Prayer could be a whole night of discussion and we will get to it but don’t wait! Praying constantly over you children, your husband, your home, and this beautiful journey you are on.

Family Read Aloud – Elementary Years (Part 1)

 

Our family LOVES great read aloud books. I have to confess most of the books I choose come from recommendations from Christain family members and friends – there are so many books out there to choose from and honestly, I want to use every opportunity I have to fill my children’s minds with good and wholesome words, thoughts and adventures. As we spend time in literature, we run into situations which of course need to be talked and taught about, however filling their minds with disrespectful behavior, un-Christlike actions and situations that encourage darkness is NOT a book I desire to have in my home. Therefore, I have and am excited to add to, a list for you of books we have personally read and enjoyed as a family. There has been so many enjoyable ones, I only hope I can share some of our recent favorites:

 

  • Little House on the Prairie Series by Laura Ingalls Wilder I cannot even begin to count how many times we have read this book aloud to our kids. We also have it on CD and it has been listened to even more times than we have read it. Truly a favorite among all ages in our home (including the adults). The first 6 books in the series have been read the most by our family, and the first three we find ourselves quoting the most.  The books emphasize hard work, perseverance, family, and adventure while portraying the realities of pioneer life.
    • Little House in the Big Woods (1932) – The story begins in the Wisconsin woods, where young Laura lives with her family in a log cabin, experiencing a simple but hardworking pioneer life.
    • Farmer Boy (1933) – A departure from Laura’s story, this book follows the childhood of her future husband, Almanzo Wilder, growing up on a farm in New York.
    • Little House on the Prairie (1935) – The Ingalls family moves to Kansas, where they build a house on the prairie, interact with Native Americans, and face hardships before having to leave.
    • On the Banks of Plum Creek (1937) – Now in Minnesota, the family lives in a sod house, struggles with grasshopper plagues, and Laura begins attending school.
    • By the Shores of Silver Lake (1939) – The Ingalls move again, this time to South Dakota, where Pa works on the railroad, and they settle near the growing town of De Smet.
    • The Long Winter (1940) – A brutal winter isolates the family and the town of De Smet, forcing them to survive months of blizzards with limited food.

  • The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame The novel explores friendship, adventure, and the balance between excitement and responsibility. It also celebrates the beauty of nature and the warmth of home. There are great lessons learned throughout the book, character traits to encourage your own family in and some to stay away from which the story does a great job showing why. I must say my husband is excellent at character voices but if you ever have an opportunity to listen to the dramatize version of The Wind in the Willows, it is a hoot and so good! 
  • Little Britches: Father and I Were Ranchers (1950) is the first book in Ralph Moody’s autobiographical series, chronicling his boyhood experiences as his family moves to Colorado in the early 1900s. Often compared to Little House on the Prairie, it provides a realistic and sometimes harsh depiction of frontier life, emphasizing values of hard work, honesty, and resilience. My husband has great memories of his mom reading aloud this book to him and his siblings, and still to this day they will bring up the series in conversation. The book is a coming-of-age story that highlights family, perseverance, and the rugged realities of frontier life.

 

 

  • The Wheel on the School by Meindert DeJong – This treasured book written in 1954 is a Newbery Medal-winning children’s novel set in a small Dutch fishing village. It is a heartwarming story about curiosity, determination, and the power of community. There are many great themes that arise in this book such as 
    • Curiosity & Exploration – Encourages children to ask questions and seek answers.
    • Perseverance & Teamwork – Shows how working together can accomplish great things.
    • Intergenerational Bonds – Highlights the wisdom and contributions of older generations.

 

 

  • Carry On, Mr. Bowditch by Jean Lee Latham – is a Newbery Medal-winning historical novel based on the life of Nathaniel Bowditch, a self-taught mathematician and navigator who revolutionized maritime navigation in the late 18th and early 19th centuries. It is a story of perseverance, intelligence, and overcoming obstacles through hard work. This is a great book for all but especially within our family we desire to encourage of the love of learning, knowing we will never be able to teach our kids everything and wanting to avoid the firehose approach to learning RATHER we want to teach HOW to learn and start a fire within each of our kids to love to learn.

  • Heidi by Johanna Spyri – Heidi by Johanna Spyri is a tender story of a cheerful orphan girl whose pure-hearted joy and kindness transform the lives of those around her. Sent to live with her reclusive grandfather in the Swiss Alps, Heidi thrives in the beauty of nature and gradually softens his hardened heart. Though later taken to the city to care for a wealthy, disabled girl named Clara, Heidi’s homesickness reveals her deep connection to the peace and simplicity of the mountains. Through her return, and Clara’s eventual visit and healing, the story beautifully illustrates several biblical and moral lessons. Heidi’s childlike faith reflects Jesus’ call to humility and trust (Matthew 18:3), while her joy in God’s creation echoes Psalm 19:1. Her quiet, consistent kindness demonstrates the power of doing good (Galatians 6:9), and her ability to find contentment in simple blessings mirrors the apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 4:11–13. Ultimately, Heidi is a celebration of compassion, redemption, and the quiet strength of a heart rooted in love and faith.

  • Misty of Chincoteague by Marguerite Henry – Misty of Chincoteague is a beloved story based on real events, centered around two orphaned children, Paul and Maureen Beebe, and their dream of owning a wild pony named Phantom from Assateague Island. The story follows their hard work, determination, and selflessness as they strive to buy and tame Phantom, only to discover she has a hidden foal—Misty. In the end, the children choose to let Phantom return to the wild, keeping Misty to raise instead. The story highlights biblical and moral themes such as stewardship, sacrificial love, and contentment. Paul and Maureen’s diligence and care for animals reflect the call to responsible dominion over God’s creation (Genesis 1:28). Their willingness to let go of what they deeply desire for the sake of the animal’s freedom speaks to the kind of self-giving love described in Philippians 2:4. The story also reminds readers that true joy often comes not from possessing something, but from doing what is right, reflecting Proverbs 11:25—“Whoever brings blessing will be enriched.” Misty of Chincoteague encourages young hearts to love deeply, work hard, and choose goodness, even when it comes at a cost.

  • Caddie Woodlawn by Carol Ryrie Brink – Caddie Woodlawn  is a spirited, semi-autobiographical novel about a lively and adventurous girl growing up on the American frontier in the 1860s. Unlike many girls of her time, Caddie is allowed to run free with her brothers, learning courage, resilience, and compassion as she explores the woods, befriends Native American neighbors, and faces family trials. Through her journey, Caddie learns to balance her bold spirit with growing maturity and wisdom. The story offers rich biblical and moral lessons: Caddie’s growing sense of responsibility reflects Proverbs 22:6 in the way her parents guide her heart without crushing her spirit. Her respect for the dignity of all people, including Native Americans, demonstrates Christlike love for others regardless of differences (Galatians 3:28). The story also highlights themes of repentance, humility, and choosing integrity over popularity—

  • Charlotte’s Web by E.B. White – Charlotte’s Web  is a tender and timeless story about friendship, sacrifice, and the beauty of life’s simple moments. It follows the unlikely bond between a pig named Wilbur and a wise, kind-hearted spider named Charlotte. When Wilbur’s life is in danger, Charlotte spins words into her web to save him, ultimately giving her life for his. This gentle tale carries deep biblical and moral truths. Charlotte’s selfless love reflects Jesus’ words in John 15:13—“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” Wilbur learns humility, gratitude, and the value of relationships over fame or comfort. The story also highlights the quiet dignity of faithful work, as Charlotte labors in love without seeking praise, much like Colossians 3:23 encourages—doing all as unto the Lord. Charlotte’s Web beautifully reminds readers that true greatness lies not in what we gain, but in how we give, love, and care for others with sincerity and sacrifice.

  • Grandma’s Attic Series by Arleta Richardson – The Grandma’s Attic series is a delightful and faith-filled collection of stories based on true tales from the author’s grandmother’s childhood in the late 1800s. Told through warm, humorous conversations between a young girl and her grandmother, each chapter reveals life lessons wrapped in mischief, laughter, and heartfelt moments. From lessons on honesty, forgiveness, and obedience to trusting God in everyday struggles, the stories offer clear biblical values in an engaging, accessible way. Scriptures are gently woven into the narrative, reinforcing truths like Proverbs 3:5–6 about trusting in the Lord, and Ephesians 4:32 on kindness and forgiveness.

    This series is particularly wonderful for family read-alouds because of its conversational tone, short chapter length, and natural opportunities to pause and discuss character choices, biblical applications, or even share your own family stories. The humor and timeless lessons make it appealing across generations, and the multi-generational dialogue encourages deeper connection between parents, children, and even grandparents. Grandma’s Attic not only entertains but gently disciples young hearts in truth, making it a treasured tool for cultivating godly character through shared storytelling.

  • The Swiss Family Robinson by Johann David Wyss – The Swiss Family Robinson is an adventurous tale of a Christian family shipwrecked on a deserted island and working together to survive using resourcefulness, cooperation, and unwavering faith in God. As the family builds their new life, they display strong moral character, ingenuity, and gratitude, frequently pausing to thank God for His provision and protection. The father often uses their experiences to teach his children spiritual lessons, reminding them of God’s sovereignty and the importance of virtue, patience, and hard work—echoing verses like Philippians 4:19 (“And my God will supply every need of yours…”) and Proverbs 6:6–8, which praises diligence.

    This classic is a rich choice for family read-alouds because it’s filled with suspenseful episodes, moral instruction, and moments of wonder that spark conversation. The family’s unity and the father’s gentle spiritual leadership provide an excellent model for biblical parenting and family discipleship. With its themes of courage, gratitude, and trusting God in the unknown, The Swiss Family Robinson not only captivates the imagination but also helps families reflect on God’s faithfulness in both trials and triumphs.

  • The Green Ember Series by S.D. Smith –The Green Ember Series is an exciting and inspiring fantasy adventure that follows the lives of two young rabbits, Heather and Picket, as they are thrust into a world of battle, courage, and hope. After their family is destroyed, they embark on a journey to rescue their loved ones and reclaim their homeland, all while learning the importance of loyalty, sacrifice, and standing for what is right. The series is rich with themes of bravery in the face of adversity, the power of hope, and the ultimate victory of good over evil, echoing biblical truths such as 1 Corinthians 15:57 (“But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ”) and Romans 8:37 (“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us”).

    This series is perfect for family read-alouds because it blends action, deep moral lessons, and relatable characters that young readers can look up to. The themes of sacrificial love and fighting for justice resonate strongly with biblical principles, making it an excellent tool for discussions about character and the importance of standing firm in faith. The adventurous plot keeps listeners on the edge of their seats, while the gentle, fatherly wisdom in the story provides natural moments for spiritual reflection and conversation. The Green Ember series offers a thrilling yet deeply meaningful reading experience for families, encouraging them to grow in their courage, faith, and love for one another.

 

There are so many amazing read alouds out there so I hope this gives you a starting point to go off of, until I can write the next post. But I will leave you with these thoughts on family read alouds. Family read-alouds are a powerful way to strengthen the bonds between parents and children while fostering a sense of togetherness and shared experience. As stories unfold, families have the opportunity to engage in meaningful conversation, discuss important life lessons, and connect on a deeper level through common narratives. These shared moments create a natural space for teaching morals, imparting wisdom, and reflecting on biblical concepts that shape character and guide decision-making. Whether through fictional adventures or real-life stories, read-alouds provide a platform for passing down values, instilling a love for learning, and cultivating a heart for truth. Ultimately, reading together nurtures not just the minds but the souls of each family member, building a foundation for lifelong connection and growth in both faith and family.

Dating verses Courtship – or is there another way?

Hello and welcome to our Podcast where we share our convictions, character qualities that are formed from them AND challenges that one might face when they are living out their conviction. Today we are addressing the much-needed conversation about our children dating, preparing for marriage through courting and the option of not just picking between those two options as parents when we are instructing but living out our own vision through Gods Word for our children. We are excited to share our own experiences, learning from those that have gone before us in their parenting as well as looking at the world our children are entering and making wise discernment discoveries to equip them for this world. As we continue this series on preparing our kids for their future our next episode we are going to address creating, teaching and equipping our kids on what to look for in a future spouse, and future friends. Make sure to follow and subscribe.

 

Practically Applying Sabbath Rest to Your Week.

 

Welcome to our conversation about the difficulties and practicalities of applying a sabbath rest in our busy lives today, the value and goodness that it brings, and considerations of our heart condition along the way.  Our discussion includes the temptations to legalize or fall into legalism when it comes to sabbath, and also the needed mindset/heart change the needs to happen to enjoy and celebrate the gift of sabbath rest. We want to also encourage against the cultural temptations of escapism and self-centered “rest.” As always we pray that these conversation encourage your faith walk, your family habits and most importantly raising households that serve the LORD.

 

How can you make Thanksgiving matter for your family.

 

Thanksgiving Matters: Intentional Gratitude in a Busy Season
In this episode of the Raising Rices podcast, we’re diving into a holiday that’s often overlooked — Thanksgiving. With the buzz of Halloween behind us and the Christmas rush ahead, Thanksgiving can easily feel like just a quick stop on the way. But what if we slowed down and made it meaningful?

We’re here to encourage families to reclaim Thanksgiving with intentionality and a biblical mindset. This episode is full of practical ideas for honoring the Lord through gratitude, building Christ-centered traditions, and fostering a spirit of thankfulness that brings the family together—not just around the table, but around the truth of God’s Word.

We talk about ways to make Thanksgiving more than just turkey and pie—how to teach kids the why behind the holiday, how to model gratitude and worship, and how to make space for Scripture, prayer, and reflection in your celebration.

Whether you’re looking for Christian Thanksgiving ideas, family holiday traditions, faith-based home rhythms, or biblical parenting and discipleship tips, this episode offers encouragement to make Thanksgiving a holiday that glorifies God and blesses your home.

🎧 Listen now and be inspired to lead your family in gratitude that honors Christ.

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Who is Really in Charge? Leadership in Education

 

As we embark on a very needed conversation on this week’s podcast, we address the question of who is really in charge of our family’s education. So, join us as we talk about homeschooling, extracurricular activities, and spiritual growth, leadership, marriage, and how all of these things can work together in a beautiful biblical picture. We pray this is an encouragement to you as you talk with your spouse about this concept and application in your own family. Make sure to subscribe and follow along as we share our conversations that lead to convictions, character quality improvements and address challenges we may face in this culture.

 

Practically Applying Sabbath Rest to Your Week Podcast

Welcome to our conversation about the difficulties and practicalities of applying a sabbath rest in our busy lives today, the value and goodness that it brings, and considerations of our heart condition along the way.  As always, we pray it is an encourage to your family, faith and raising households that serve the Lord.

Feel free to listen above to the podcast or find us at iTunes or Spotify.

Leadership in Education, who is really in charge?

As we embark on a very needed conversation on this weeks podcast we address the question of who is really incharge of our families education. So, join us as we talk about homeschooling, extracurricular activities, and spiritual growth, leadership, marriage, and how all of these things can work together in a beautiful biblical picture.

We pray you walk away encouraged and it promotes great conversation with your spouse as you align your families vision with scripture and Gods’ amazing design for the family.

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