The God Who Sees You
Key Scripture: Genesis 16:13 – “So she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, ‘You are a God of seeing,’ for she said, ‘Truly here I have seen him who looks after me.’”
Focus: Assurance that God sees, knows, and cares for weary and unseen mothers.
Devotional:
In Genesis 16, we find a weary woman, Hagar, alone and desperate in the wilderness. She was not a matriarch of Israel, not the wife of Abraham, not even free. And yet God saw her. He called her by name, comforted her with truth, and gave her a promise. And she declared what many mothers today need to remember: El Roi—“the God who sees me.”
There are long days in motherhood and marriage when you feel unseen—when your service goes unnoticed, your burdens feel private, and your soul feels small. But you are not forgotten. The God of Scripture is not distant. He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and attentive to the cries of His people (Exodus 3:7). Sola fide reminds us that our standing before Him is not based on recognition or accomplishment, but faith in Christ who intercedes for us.
Even when no one else sees the sacrifices you make, God does. He sees the midnight prayers, the early-morning cries for wisdom, and the quiet repentance when you fall short. The Lord who watched over Hagar in the wilderness watches over you in your kitchen, your car, your nursery, and your living room. Your work matters, because you matter to Him.
Let this truth give you courage: you are seen, you are known, and you are loved—not because of what you do, but because of who He is.
Reflection Verses:
- Psalm 139:1-3 – “O Lord, You have searched me and known me…”
- Hebrews 6:10 – “God is not unjust so as to overlook your work…”
- Matthew 6:4 – “Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”
Sola Connection: Sola Fide – By faith, not fame or recognition, we are known and loved by God. He sees those who trust in Him, even in the hidden places.
Practically Speaking
- Know That Unseen Doesn’t Equal Insignificance
When your work feels hidden — folding clothes, wiping tears, praying in the dark — God sees every act of faithfulness. You are never invisible to Him. And the truth is you are not invisible to the ones you are caring for, while they might remember every act as God does they remember how you make them feel and in Proverbs 31 it says they rise up to call her blessed, meaning they have been a witness and recipient to the care and service she has done. - Speak Truth to the Lies
The enemy whispers, “You’re not doing enough. No one notices. You’re failing.” God speaks, “You are mine. I see you. I delight in your faithfulness.” There will be many voices including the ones in your own head, but the voice that matters is the voice of truth. - Journal the Daily Faithfulness
Write down the little victories — the prayer whispered, the tantrum endured, the meal served with love. These small moments matter. They are seeds of eternal fruit. Journaling the daily faithfulness we walk in as mothers helps us recognize God’s presence in the ordinary and reminds us that small acts of love, sacrifice, and service are seen and valued by Him. Writing down moments of patience, prayers whispered, or grace extended anchors our hearts in gratitude and helps us trace the quiet, steady work of the Spirit through the ups and downs of motherhood. It’s a way to remember that faithfulness isn’t about perfection—but about showing up with a heart surrendered to Christ, day after day. I would like to say I am good at this but the truth is I am not, however I remember a conversation I have on repeat with my husband where I share that I feel like I have got nothing done throughout the day when he gets home and my “checklist” hasn’t been accomplished to the degree I wanted it to, he gently and firmly reminds me of all the things I have done that day, the eternal things that matter most, the children I have served and loved faithfully all day, the tummies filled with food, the diapers changed with care, the heart of serving that was received. He reminds me as I will remind you, those things matter because they matter to God. - Let Others In
You’re not meant to walk this calling alone. Find another mom who understands. Share the hard. Remind each other that God is working in the quiet places. Do not just find someone to vent to, find someone who will turn your heart and mind back to Christ. Here are a few red flags when it comes to finding a person to speak truth in your life:
🚩 1. They twist or ignore Scripture.
“They distort the Scriptures… to their own destruction.”
— 2 Peter 3:16
If someone frequently takes verses out of context or adds their own opinions above God’s Word, that’s a major red flag. Truth-speakers should handle Scripture carefully, humbly, and accurately.
🚩 2. They lack humility and accountability.
“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”
— Proverbs 16:18
A trustworthy person will not speak from a place of superiority or arrogance, but with a humble spirit, recognizing they too are under God’s authority.
🚩 3. They encourage sin or minimize holiness.
“Woe to those who call evil good and good evil.”
— Isaiah 5:20
If their counsel excuses sin, undermines repentance, or neglects God’s call to holiness, their words are not rooted in godly truth.
🚩 4. Their life contradicts the fruit of the Spirit.
“You will recognize them by their fruits.”
— Matthew 7:16
If someone’s life consistently shows patterns of gossip, bitterness, greed, or divisiveness rather than love, peace, gentleness, and self-control, be cautious about receiving spiritual guidance from them.
🚩 5. They seek control, not your growth.
“Not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock.”
— 1 Peter 5:3
If they try to take authority over your life rather than lovingly point you to Christ, they may be more interested in power than in your sanctification.
✅ What to look for instead:
- A love for God’s Word
- A lifestyle of repentance and obedience
- A heart that points you back to Christ, not to themselves
- A spirit of humility, grace, and truth
- Rest in Being Fully Known
You don’t have to explain your exhaustion to God. He understands before you say a word. He doesn’t love you because you’re strong — He holds you because He is.
REMINDERS – Biblically Speaking
- God Sees the Invisible Work
“You are the God who sees me.” — Genesis 16:13 (Hagar, a weary and forgotten mother, said this in the wilderness)
➤ Hagar wasn’t overlooked — and neither are you. God sees your tears, your prayers, your service. - He Knows Every Burden
“Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.” — Psalm 139:4
➤ You don’t need to put your weariness into perfect words — He already knows your heart. - Jesus Cares for the Weary
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
➤ He’s not distant. He’s near. He gently calls the exhausted to Himself and promises soul-deep rest. - God Honors the Faithful, Not the Flashy
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance…” — Colossians 3:23–24
➤ That diaper changed, that Gospel conversation, that late-night rocking — God sees it all, and He will reward. - Solus Christus — Christ Alone Is Your Strength
➤ You don’t need to be seen by the world when you’re held by Christ. Your identity and value are anchored in Him, not in how much others notice.
In Practice, That Might Look Like…
- Whispering, “You see me, Lord,” as you stand in the kitchen late at night finishing the last of the dishes
- Clinging to Genesis 16:13 on the days you feel forgotten or unappreciated, relying that in the God who Sees
- Trusting that your quiet sacrifices are storing up treasures in heaven
- Remembering that every act of love is noticed by the One who matters most
- Encouraging other moms you see working unto the Lord
Checking your words when describing things in the home, like “I have to” verses “I get to”
