Vlog- Volunteering at Echo Horse Ranch

It has been 4 months now of the kids and I volunteering at Echo Horse Ranch. This is a rescue ranch for horses that have had abuse or neglect in their past. It was important to Darren and I to find something for our kids to serve and learn hard work at, and Echo Ranch turned out to be the perfect place. This is a church ministry from a local church where they believe in redemption and use the recovery of the horses to illustrate a redemptive story each one of us can have through Jesus Christ. You will see in our vlog below the different responsibilities we do while we are there and hear about some of the blessings and thanks they give to us for volunteering. This whole adventure has been a wonderful gift to our family: hope you enjoy! 

Redemptive Discipline

Redemptive Discipline

The first time I heard this expression was when I was attending BSF as women’s bible study that also had a nursery, preschool, and homeschool areas where they would teach the bible concept the moms were learning too. A wonderful time I had in this program, and this is where I heard the expression, “Redemptive Discipline.”

The name redemptive strikes the heart of believers because it represents salvation from sin, and we know the only way one can be redeemed is through the saving power of Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:7). We tend to see one of two ways when it comes to discipline (or one could also say discipleship) and that is either moralistic behaviorism or gospel-centered application, we will dive into those in a moment. But before we do, please know dear friend that just as there is grace given to our children there is also grace to you, so please read these words (as I reflect on them daily as well) and be encouraged not condemned.

If you have spent any amount of time in the parenting relm you might have heard encouragement from others saying, make sure you get your child’s heart. To me this has always and continues to feel like a very BIG task. I find inside my brain I am repeatedly ask myself: how do I win my child’s heart, and when will I know that I have won my child’s hear? I do have to confess what I have found in my own years of learning and listening to others that it is through intentionally and consistently pursuing them, BUT IN THE RIGHT WAY. Today we will be looking at one of the key ways we can go wrong as parents when we turn our children into moralistic behaviorism robots instead of pointing them to Jesus and the redemption He offers when our children sin.   Lets dive in:

1. Moralism cannot reach a child’s heart.

When it comes to Moralism and moral thinking, we tend to forget Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God! We cannot teach our kids out of sin, they will have sin and will struggle with sin. Just ask yourself, do you still struggle with sin at times? The truth is for the rest of our lives we will struggle at times but through redemption in Christ we are being transformed into a new creation which through HIS power abiding in HIM are able to address our sinful hearts, THROUGH HIM to be eternally saved and daily sanctified. There are plenty of ways we try to teach morality, we can even use the bible characters we to show a moral lesson. But when we try to make kids into good rule-keepers, they tend to either do one of two things: they can individually earn God’s favor (and or parents favor and love) through their GOOD BEHAVIOR or they see they will never be able to keep the rules and conclude there’s no use trying, and ultimately turn away from the faith because they think it is pointless. And sadly, both of these options are missing the WAY TO GRACE is through CHRIST ALONE, not of our own works do not one can boost.

What we ultimately see is that moralism, being a good rule follower, and people pleaser results in pride and fear in the heart of a child. Remembering that obedience in outward behavior doesn’t mean that a inner change has happened through Jesus Christ. The power of the Gospel changes us from the inside out.

 

2. Manipulation cannot reach a child’s heart.

This word: Manipulation, is a harsh one but as parents (if we are honest) we have done this many of times. How many times have we said something like, “I can’t believe you just did that, you should be ashamed of yourself,” or “Look at Suzy and she is behaving, why aren’t you behaving like her,” or “We just learned at church about this why are you not listening.” Even still have you ever used God to manipulation behavior by saying things like, “God doesn’t like it when you do that.” It is true God doesn’t like sin and isn’t happy when we sin BUT are we using it as a tool for training to produce guilt, and manipulate our kids to have the outward actions we want them to have? While truth needs to be spoken what is the heart of the parent when they are speaking truth, is it to get a behavior they want to see or is it to point our kids towards Jesus and the gift He gives us? We must point out sin, because if we believe we have no sin then do we need a savior? But EQUALLY IMPORTANT we have to show the GOSPEL, and God’s loving plan for his people to be redeemed through Christ. Even while we were still sinners Christ died for us! Manipulation can only produce guilt, shame, or anger in a child’s heart, BUT the gospel can create inner change, TRUE AND LASTING CHANGE.

Does that mean we shouldn’t train our children in what things are right? Absolutely NOT. Hebrew 12:10 says: They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness. So YES, we absolutely need to and show train our children. God does that for us as well, which we can see is truly a lovely attribute of God, and reminds us that we also need to discipline with the heart of love towards our children.

 

3. We reach a child’s heart for Christ through the gospel.

1 Corinthians 15:3–4: “For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures.” The Gospel is the MOST IMPORTANT truth we can teach our children. The truth of the gospel is we are sinners and there is literally NOTHING we can do to EARN grace. And we are saved through GRACE ALONE, through FAITH ALONE, by CHRIST ALONE, and we know this ACCORDING TO SCRIPTURE ALONE all for THE GLORY OF GOD ALONE. Gospel-centered teaching shows that God uses people who are weak and broken.  just like in the Bible characters we used to teach moral lessons we can use them as well to show they are imperfect, just like us. And God did not choose Noah, Moses, and David (for example), because of their character but because of His grace, the same grace He offers us today. God knows who we are, remember He sent His son to die for us WHILE WE WERE STILL SINNERS. His love for us doesn’t change when we fail, He knows we will fail (for all have sinned!). God reaches a child’s heart with the truth of the gospel. The Gospel transforms your child’s heart whereas in manipulation and moralism are used to harden the hearts of our children. God in His ultimate wisdom has given us the perfect tool for parenting: the gospel. The gospel is what creates inner heart change, and eternal importance. Remember the Gospel is not just for unbelievers but believers as well because when we fix our eyes on the gospel, we are fixing our eyes on Jesus. The good news, the redemption plan is for us parents as well as our children.

Truths to hold on to: 

God wants to change our hearts for eternity, NOT behavior for a moment. As parents we must be thinking past the moment and ask ourselves “is this eternal, and what can I do to train towards the eternal heart not the momentary behavior,” (we must think big picture in the little moments,) when we only have so little time with our children we must be encouraged to look at each opportunity as a moment to share the gospel with out children, but correction and training with the gospel in mind.

Redemptive discipline (growth-oriented) asks how I can help this child love God and love others. Result-oriented discipline makes children think that they can earn God’s approval and acceptance with good behavior. The gospel teaches them that they can NOT earn God’s approval or favor through their good works or good behavior but ONLY through Jesus Christ alone.

First time obedience is not wrong to expect from our children BUT WE CAN’T LEAVE IT AT OUTWARD ACTION. If our children are obedient that does NOT mean we have won their heart and it does NOT mean they have given their lives to following Christ. I say this as a reminder to myself and others to encourage us that obedience is NOT THE END GOAL.  While important for safety and training, it NEEDS to be accompanied ALWAYS with the Gospel. In our home we strive to have obedience look like: 1, right away, first time obedience, 2, all the way obedience, it is not obeying if it is only part way, and 3, obedience must be done with a happy heart, to submit and respect the one giving the instruction. These things are not bad in principle or action, if fact they are very important for training our kids but when we miss the FOUNDATION for which those principles should be laid on (THE GOSPEL) then we are building on shaking ground, not a firm foundation. Obedience is important and our kids learn to obey out of love for their parents just like they will continue when they have saving faith to obey God out of love for Him. Lest us no forget that our main goal as parents is to point our children to Christ.

Lead with Love and Grow with Grace

I hope this was encouraging, it is a mindset of eyes focused on the eternal, and a reminder to always live with the Gospel in mind, hearts focused on Christ, remembering it is ALL FOR HIS GLORY!

Vlog – Sausage Making for our First Time

One of our goals as we prepare for our future homestead is to start to learn and experience the different parts of the process that we can do without yet living on our land. In today's vlog you will get to see PART 2 of our sausage making adventure.

Darren and boys along with Grandpa built from scratch a smoker that would attach on to the smoker at Darren's dad's house. You will see in today's Vlog whether or not that was a successful design. We have been learning and experiencing so much throughout these small adventures and it is exciting to know we get to take those lessons with us to our Legacy Farm

Enjoy todays Vlog and leave in the comments if you have a favorite kind of sausage flavor in the comments. We tried two flavor profiles:  Kielbasa and Country Sausage (like a bratwurst style). Next time I would love to also try breakfast sausage, yum!

6 Months Living in a Trailer and Now What?

We have officially made it 6 months (183 days) of living in our trailer. If you would have asked me 6 months ago if I thought it was possible for our family of 7 to make it with our sanity in tack, living in a trailer for 6 months I would have not thought it was possible, but here I stand corrected.

 

Has it been hard, YES! But, hard is not bad, instead I have seen the joy, contentment, family relationships, and simplicity rise from this new living situation. Our trailer is housed on our friends property which is probably the biggest blessing to be found in this who situation. For us to be able to receive the generosity and true example of caring for those in your community. SUCH A BLESSING!

Here are a few things that have REALLY stood out to us during these last 6 months:

Some days feel incredibly normal and other days feel cramped.

Out of the 180 plus days some start to feel normal and easy but then all of a sudden a day will come when we long to not be cramped and back in a house of our own. Some weeks I will turn to Darren and say, “Wow, 6 months have gone so fast we could totally do this another 6 months.” And then as if some funny joke the next day I will turn to Darren and say, “I won’t make it another 6 months.” But isn’t that just how life is – filled with ebbs and flows. You have some days you win and some days you lose but thankful for Gods grace and that His mercies are new every morning. It is ok to recognize the hardships but not dwell on them, keeping your focus and mindset on things above creates moments of joy instead of dread.

No days off when it comes to organization!

When we were living in our home prior to moving into the trailer, I could easily delay putting things away, organization, dishes, laundry, etc. But when you move from 1500 sq ft to 300 sq ft (a combination of trailer and cottage), if you neglect any in the moment cleaning or organization you FEEL IT! You can imagine with me cooking and eating for a family of 7 without a dishwasher you simply have to do the dishes after every meal or else you have a mess and no dishes for the next meal. But it also extends past that as well into other areas of the trailer, if we don’t put away clothes, toys out in their places, or simply take out the trash you can start to feel like your space is closing in on you. So we have learned there is no days off when it comes to putting things away and organizing our things. This is a lesson we are constantly teaching ourselves and kids and one we hope will continue on into our new space (one day.)

Being close together grows relationship and closeness.

My friend gave me this sign to put up in our cottage space which truly reflects what we have learned and experienced during these last 6 months living in close quarters, it says, “Love grows best in little houses, with fewer walls to separate. Where you eat and sleep so close together you can’t help but communicate. and if we had more room between is, think of all we’d miss. Love grows best in houses just like this.” We personally have found so much closeness being created from the mere fact we are forced into togetherness. While you will see in the section below this has also brought about more training, there has come with a lot of positiveness as well. One funny thing we have noticed is that when we go to our parents houses and give the kids free range of the house to play, but when we will turn around we see all the kids are literally playing side by side, even though the space is limitless they have grown accustom to playing next to each other.

We have experienced that there has been way more opportunity to train and correct our kids. 

As I alluded to previously the closeness has brought many, MANY opportunities to train and correct our kids. Darren and I passionate about trying to find the blessing in being able to see our kids sin and correct them on it. We view it as a blessing because if we didn’t see the sin, we wouldn’t have the opportunity to expose and correct them on it, thus creating perpetual sin and habit-forming sin. Simple proximity to each other has given us the opportunity to see and train on more in our children’s lives.  This is a lot of work, and it is hard and exhausting at times but SO, SO important, to which we have been grateful for the opportunity to bring more awareness to issues we didn’t know before.

 

So where do we go from here? What is the plan next? This is a GREAT question and one we get asked a lot! So here is the simple answer: we don’t know. I mean we have ideas and plans and prayers of what will transpire but we are holding all of those dreams with hands open to where God leads us. Right now, we are in the final stages to close on our building loan, we are excited about finally breaking ground on our property in Idaho and hope that once ground breaks we will be able to move in there between 6 months to a year. (That seems so long but we are just not sure with all the world crisis situations how that will affect our building). In the meantime we are 2 weeks away from our first camping trip of the year. Yes, I know we literally living in our trailer so we are daily camping haha, but our goal is to go see some other places and create memories of this time in our trailer that extends past our current location. Here is some of the destinations on the docket:

March – Seaside, Oregon (1 week)

April – Bend, Oregon (1 week)

May – Washington tour (2 weeks)

June – Eastern Idaho (1 week)

July – Eastern Idaho (1 week) and Darren and I are doing a solo trip to the San Juan Islands, WA (1 Week)

August – California Redwoods, Lake Tahoe, and Yosemite (3 weeks)

September – Tour through ID, UT, NV, AZ (3 weeks)

(We do think with these trips it will make the next 6 months go by quickly, and hopefully during this time we will see our house build progress.)

We are excited to share our adventures both here on the blog and on our YouTube and Rumble accounts so make sure you subscribe to follow along on the journey.

It is going to be an adventure! We are excited!

 

Vlog- Our First Great Wolf Adventure

Our family just had our very first Great Wolf Lodge experience! We had a great time and learned a lot. Here is our Vlog is all about our adventure! We have also created a detailed blog (HERE!) sharing all our tips, tricks and lessons learned. ENJOY! 

 

GREAT WOLF LODGE ADVENTURE VLOG HERE

Great Wolf Lodge – Tips and Tricks

Our family got to experience our very FIRST Great Wolf Lodge experience! And Boy Oh Boy it was an ADVENTURE! We learned a lot and we are excited to share our experience, and tips that helped our family on a memorable trip.

The follow experiences, ideas, tips and tricks shared will be based on what is most helpful to our family. Important elements to us are being good stewards of our money, time and family building. You will see this reflected in the notes below. I will be going over general thoughts, randomized helpful tips, as well and health and packing tips.

 

 

Our dear friends invited us to come with them to Great Wolf Lodge (they are veterans to the game of GWL). My friend who had a gift card given to them from a Christmas Present noticed that there was a deal to be used as a discount to the overall cost if booked between X-Y. We got together to pick dates and quickly realized the price differences between a weekday trip and a weekend trip as well as some months were cheaper than others.

 

TIP #1

If possible LOOK FOR A DEAL CODE, and SELECT DATES DURING WEEKDAYS AND NON-BUSY MONTHS (off season). This will help you save money and select the room that works the best for your family.

Once we had found the dates that would work best both of our families as well as within the deal time frame, then we looked at the different room options available. A few things we learned during it process is the floor level. Our friends booked over the phone and were given a room on the first floor. This allowed them to easily load and unload into their room from the parking lot, as well and reduced time waiting at the elevator to go to and from their room. The first-floor rooms have HIGH ceilings which is so nice, as well.  Our room which we booked online was on the 8th floor (the highest floor possible.) It was nice to have no one above us but other then that the cons outweighed the benefits.

 

 

TIP #2

REQUEST A ROOM ON THE FIRST OR SECOND FLOOR. 

Our Veteran GWL friends let us in on the secret that you can bring your own food. They recommended the Majestic Bear Suite, this suite sleeps 8 people, and has a private room that can be closed (this was so helpful since Darren had to work during the day in the room). The room also included a mini fridge, microwave, and small sink. The other HUGE feature that was a selling point was it had a countertop table that seated everyone at meal times. We enjoyed every meal in our room sans one. (which I will explain below). The foods we brought included: yogurt and granola, taco soup, oatmeal, bagels and cream cheese,  Charcuterie board style, and many snacks. This was a HUGE money saver for our large family (7 full size eaters). ALSO since we had the room that had a table it allowed us to have some reprieve from the pool and noise. This was so important after a long day at the pool.

 

 

TIP #3

EAT IN YOUR ROOM WHEN YOU CAN. AND BRING WATER BOTTLES.

There are many activities to do while you are at the Lodge, some of them we were very excited to participate in and others didn't fit our vision for our vacation. I will explain a few that we did and tried here in a moment, but what is IMPORTANT to note is that the swimming pool is open from 10:00 am to 8:00 pm and you WILL want to have other things to can do and enjoy, especially if you need a break or have early risers like myself who are up and excited for the day by 7:00. In addition to what the Lodge provides we also brought a lot of card games to play in the room on our table which was a life saver. The other activity we did was the Arcade, we spent 30 dollars and had an hour of entertainment and won a hand full of tootsies pops. My kids have never experienced an arcade before and they enjoyed learning how things worked but was hard to navigate with the amount of people in the arcade. One activity that was offered that we didn't do was mini golf, it is 7 dollars per person which would been about the same price as the arcade. Other activities they offer at the hotel include walking in the woods behind the hotel, yoga, PJ dance party, build a bear, candy shop, ice cream shop, and magical wands. While we know a lot of people have enjoyed these thing for us they weren't what we envisioned as part of our adventure. Also note everything costs money, each activity will cost you, therefore having a plan or bringing things from home can both save your money and sanity.

 

 

TIP #4

CREATE A PLAN FOR HOW YOU WILL SPEND YOUR TIME WHEN NOT SWIMMING AT THE POOL. 

The pool is huge and has very fun slides, they use a wristband system, one wrist band for the kids allows them into the waterpark, when you get to the entrance they give them a second wrist band that is color coded to say what slides and areas they are allowed in (this is based on height).  For the adults you get a different wrist band that has a few features, one is that it is your door key, (this is fun because you have it with you always and don't have to worry about loosing it especially while at the pool), you also have the option of adding a credit card on file for your wrist band, normally we would pass on this feature but since Darren was working during the day we added the card to my wristband so that I could buy lunch during the day. We did chose to do lunch at the pool on our full day there. You can bring food into the pool area IF it is purchased at one of their restaurants. Our friends let us know about the pizza, a large pizza was only 15 dollars, we were pleasantly surprised with the price, the taste and the quickness of them. It also was fun to eat it in the pool, (but super loud, I probably would have enjoyed giving my ears a break and eating in the room.)

 

 

Observation Tip:

As I mentioned they have chairs all over the pool you can find an empty on to put your things on while you are swimming. They also have these cabanas around you can purchase to use for the day. We did not get one or ask about the price, BUT my husband and I were commenting that we would consider renting on IF we had a newborn that needed to be fed or nap or some space away to not be so close to everyone. Some have curtains you can close, they also have towels, chairs and table to eat. Food is brought to your cabana, and they have a mini fridge to keep things cold. I tried to ask some of my friends after leaving about the Cabana, some think that they have packages that include vouchers for meals and included in the price. Needless to say in certain seasons of my life I would have been highly interested to see what the cost would be for the private area.

 

 

RANDOM BUT HELPFUL HINTS:

  1. When you arrive and leave they have carts you may use to bring your things to and from your car, pull up to the front door and discover where our room is then grab a cart to unload. At the Grand Mound in Washington GWL all the rooms are to the right off the main doors.
  2. They have recently created a check in system on your phones, which allows for ease of check in and check out.
  3. They have late check out available which was important since Darren needed to work for the day, (but it was $70) then we could go swim afterwards. This allowed us to extend our stay, but it was additional cost.
  4. After you check out for your stay you can stay and swim the rest of the day. (Plan accordingly while packing up)
  5. Bring water bottles, YOU WILL NEED TO DRINK WATER and you can bring them into the pool. (Also water is like 4 dollars a bottle so don't forget to bring your water bottle.)
  6. Everything operates off your wristband, AND you can attach a credit card to your wristband, this can be very helpful and all too convenient as well 😉
  7. Everyone gets wolf ears - you have to get them from the gift shop 🙂

 

 

EVERY EXPERIENCE IS A LEARNING OPPORTUNITY 

Everywhere we go as a family we are intentional to use each opportunity to teach and train our kids, yes even on vacation. (Especially on vacation! Because there are new opportunities to be taught on in these new environments.)

  1. Hotel etiquette - We actually do not stay in hotels very often as we are more of a camping family, but we realized how important it is to set a standard of etiquette for our kids. We covered things like no running, volume, being considerate of those next to you, above or below you, smiling and saying hello to those you pass in the hallway, thanking the staff when as they are graciously serving you, how to leave the hotel well at check out, etc.
  2. Elevator etiquette - This one may seem strange but I can not tell how important it was for our family to address and teach on the elevator etiquette. We for sure have not had a lot of experiences with elevators, and especially not with a lot of other people around. Since we were on the 8th floor we had a LOT of practice on our etiquette. We taught and trained them on things such as: waiting patiently for the elevator to arrive, what button to push if you need the elevator and how to tell if the button has already been pushed, watching the arrows light up to show if the elevator is on a downward or upward path. Also trainings on: not standing in front of the elevator doors when it opens so others can exit before you enter, holding the elevator doors open as everyone loads, asking what floor the others would like, politely requesting what floor you would like, only pushing the buttons you need, etc.
  3. Teamwork to set up and unload - In everything we do as a family we encourage all members of our family to take an active role in the set up, unload, clean up, pack up and loading. It is important to us that we are not rushing to go do the next activity until we can all go together. Equally we have seen first hand that many hands make light work.
  4. Realities of the Arcade - Our family operates in a way where the kids already know that during a game there can only be one winner and thus the rest are losers, so we used this to instruct similarly in way how the an arcade works and the reality of "lucky chance." We thought this was important to share since we don't make it to an Arcade frequently.
  5. Pool Safety - This may seem obvious since we are at a pool BUT we thought it would be SUPER important to cover the standard and explicit rules since for half the day it would be just me (mom) and the 5 kids by myself. We covered rules such as: they must stay in a decided area and they can not run to the next area without asking first, lifejackets must be worn unless asked (my kids are 3, 4, 5, 7, and 8), that they have to use the restroom in pairs (and NO PEEING IN THE POOL), we used the buddy system when it came to the slides (one would slide down and wait at the bottom until the sibling came down then they could go back up together again). Pay attention to the whistles of the lifeguards, and respond right away to their directions. Have Fun of course but stay safe.

 

 

HEALTH TIPS 

We DID NOT prepare well in this area but we will NOT be caught off guard the next time. The pool is HEAVILY chlorinated (our friends we traveled with said this time in particular was more then ever before.) ALL of our kids had physical affects from the chlorine. Here are some things I would have brought to support their bodies.

  1. Vapor Rub - To rub on their chest before bed, the chlorine caused an inflammation of their airway, and all of them where coughing in the evening when we came back from the pool. (A few of my kids worse than others but they have that tendency during other situations as well.)
  2. Cough Drops - To support their throats after coughing so much.
  3. Diffuser with oils - This would have been so helpful to have running in our room to help with breathing in Chlorine all day. Oils such as: Lavendar, Frankincense, Peppermint, Eucalyptus, Bergamot and anything to help with deep breathing.
  4. Nebulizer - IF you have a kiddo (I have one) that would benefit from this tool to help soothe the airway, or wash the dried chlorine out of their lungs I would recommend having one of these on hand.
  5. Lotion - The hotel does provide lotion but I would recommend bringing a plain, unscented moisturizing lotion. Also, and I say this with grace since not only did we not do this but I know it can be hard to do. I would remind myself next time to make sure the kids shower after swimming, and to rinse out the swimsuit and anything that got chlorine on it, if you leave the chlorine on your body it can make rashes and continue to seep into the skin (the largest organ a body has.)

 

 

PACKING TIPS

Most of these packing tips comes from wishing we would have brought these. We learned a lot during this trip that we would do differently for future trips.

  1. Life Jackets - GWL does have lifejackets you can borrow, but they are limited and many times I saw the cart empty so if your kiddos needs a lifejacket I would bring your own.
  2. Flip-flops and or water shoes - This was an epic fail on my part, we forgot flip flops to wear from our hotel room down to the pool (we ended up just wearing our shoes which worked out fine), BUT I also longed for my water socks while walking around in the waterpark area and in the pool. The cement is VERY slippery as well as the bathrooms, and as a mom I would stand watching my kiddos for hours and my feet were killing me by the end I longed to wear my comfortable and supportive shoes. (Next time I will!)
  3. Swimsuit cover - Seems obvious right? Yup! I forgot mine. The pool provides towels which is nice but they are to only be used in the pool area, there is a 15 dollar charge if you don't return them. You have to check them out by your wristband. Next time I will be remembering my swimsuit cover for the girls as well.
  4. Waterproof bag and or LARGE bag - They allow you to bring a bag into the pool this was helpful to us to carry our water bottles, and put our shoes, and clothes in it before entering the pool. There are chairs there you can snag an empty one and put your bag and towels on the chair to save your spot.
  5. Paper Products (don't forget the napkins!) - This is VERY important if you are planning on eating in your room. There are not utensils, plates, bowls, and NAPKINS in the room so make sure to pack them. We brought fruit to eat and had to use my husbands pocket knife to cut it up, and with out taco soup we forgot a serving utensil so we used a disposable coffee up they provided with the coffee machine.
  6. CONDITIONER - The Lodge provided shampoo/conditioner combo, I used it twice and in my opinion it did nothing but dry out my hair. My daughter and I have long hair which tangles easily so conditioner next time is a MUST!!

 

We had a great time and were grateful to go with our dear friends! Made lots of memories! Both of our families got to share a dinner together (Taco soup and Chili), followed up by Bible reading and worship together. It was a sweet and special time that will be remember always.

 

 

 

This week we are releasing a Vlog on our experience. Make sure to check it out!

Vlog – Response to Our Reel Gone Viral (15 Unpopular Parenting Opinions)

Have you ever stood for something you believed in and got a lot of feedback? (Maybe both support and hate). A few months ago I made a reel over on Instagram which actually got over 2.1 MILLION views! It was a short, quick mini video stating 3 unpopular parenting opinions we have. And let me tell you, we got A LOT of other people sharing their opinions and questions about our thoughts. Since we value conversation and want to encourage others, we have decided to create a Vlog explaining our hearts behind our convictions. We wanted to make sure to share that these convictions are not commandments. they are simply our decisions for our family that we have made together through prayer and seeking out the word of God for wisdom.

This video is a little different then our normal vlogs but we thought this would be the best way to address the questions you all may have had.

15 Unpopular PARENTING Opinions:

Homemade Ranch

 

In our household Ranch is a staple for mealtime. We used to buy premade Hidden Valley Ranch dressing, then progressed to the Hidden Valley Ranch dressing dry mix pack. This obsession with Ranch has driven us to create our very own Ranch Mix. We are excited to share with you the different ways we enjoy using our Ranch Mix as well as how we have created a better version (both in depth of flavor and preservative free) of Ranch Dressing and Dip.

As we have developed our understanding of the importance of what we put in our bodies, we have discovered that homemade truly allows you to know what you are putting in your body. In our mixes we sell at our family farm Heritage Home Family Farm we pride ourselves on avoiding ingredients that are harmful to our bodies. Basically, everything we create we feed to our own family and if it isn’t something we want our kids to have then we will not put it in our mixes.

The ingredients within our Ranch mix will not surprise you and you will be able to read them all, we even grow some of the herbs on our family farm. Truly farm to table, homemade with ease is our mission.

Ranch Mix

Ok, now to the fun part! We already showed how fast and easy it is to make Ranch dressing and Ranch Dips, here are some other amazing uses for this mix:

  • Baked Breaded Ranch Chicken: Simply add 4 TBS of our Ranch Mix with 1 cup of unseasoned breadcrumbs into a gallon sized sealable bag, add 3 Pounds of cut raw chicken into the bag, shake well to make sure even coating, then Bake chicken on ungreased baking pan at 375°F for 50 minutes or until juices run clear or an internal temperature of 165°F.
  • Ranch Toasted Bread: Spread the butter and then sprinkle the Ranch Mix evenly on the bread halves. Place under the broiler for 2–3 minutes, until golden and the butter begins to seep and bubble. Serve hot.
  • Creamy Ranch Beef Noodles: In a small bowl mix together 18oz of sour cream, 1/2 cup milk, 2 TBS of the Ranch mix, stir together and set to side. Cook bag of egg noodles, while noodles are boiling in a separate pan cook ground beef (about 1 pound). Mix all three parts together (mixture, noodles, and meat) then serve and enjoy.
  • Ranch Salmon: Simply place the salmon in an oiled 13 x 9 baking dish. Spread the Ranch Mix evenly over the top. (Use amount to your taste and number of salmons you have. Bake uncovered for about 10 to 15 minutes or until fish is opaque and flakes easily when tested with fork.
  • Ranch Roasted Potato Wedges: Preheat 425 degrees, combine 5 TBS of the Ranch Mix, 1/4 teaspoon salt and 1/4 cup Parmesan cheese in a gallon-size resealable bag. Cut 3 Russet potatoes into wedges, and cover in melted butter (about 3 tablespoon) then add into the resealable bag and mix around to coat with the mixture. Lay the wedges, flat side down, on baking sheet, bake for 20 minutes. Turn wedges over and bake for another 20 minutes, or until golden brown. Serve with Ranch Dip 🙂 
  • Addicting Chicken Dip: In a large mixing bowl, stir the cream cheese (8oz), sour cream (1 cup), and Ranch Mix (4 TBS) together until well blended. Cook 4 pieces of bacon. Fold in the cooked shredded chicken (1 1/2 cup), shredded cheddar cheese (1 1/2 cup) and ¾ of the bacon. Top with remaining bacon crumbles. Refrigerate until ready to serve or serve immediately with chips, vegetables or bread.

Also use Ranch Mix in:

  • As seasoning in Chicken Noodle Soup
  • On top of eggs for breakfast
  • Use as seasoning on Chicken, and fish
  • Yummy on baked vegetables
  • Use in Tuna or Chicken salad mixes with Mayo
  • Rub on Whole Chicken or Turkeys with butter.

Our Ranch Mix is Gluten Free, Dairy Free, MSG Free, and No added preservatives.

 

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ENJOY! And let us know what you use it on 🙂

 

 

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